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    A New Heart

    It has been quite some time since I last wrote on here! So much has changed, I’ve been stretched in so many ways and although uncomfortable I am grateful for the growing pains, even more so for a new heart. If I could describe 2020 in one word, it would undoubtedly be, ‘grace’. Or at least, the year that the realisation dawned upon me about how much grace I’ve been given from my Father. As it is written in Acts 15:11, “We believe that we are all saved the same way, by the undeserved grace of the Lord Jesus.”  I am so undeserving of His grace because I am a sinner…

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    Am I Woman Enough For You?

    So, this post came quite abruptly. I was planning on writing a post about something completely different. What sparked this post? Sza’s Drew Barrymore: “Am I woman enough for you?” I never thought that I would ever experience the feeling of being on the other side of my partner staring at another woman when I’m next to him. I’ve witnessed a lot of other men who would openly stare at other women while walking with their ‘woman” and I’d feel uncomfortable because dude, you’re walking with such a beautiful woman, why are you staring at someone else? And immediately after that thought its: Are you not in love with her?…

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    SELF-LOVE, WHAT’S THAT

    Self-love is tricky – or at least that’s what it feels like for me. I think I’m slowly starting to accept that I fall under the “impatient” category. A long journey does not seem appealing – does it ever? And self-love is one journey that I feel I’ll be on for a long time.   I’ve been stuck in a lonely dark hole. It’s mind-boggling how something that you cannot begin to explain to another person can come forward in front of you and block the “real” you. You know, the you that has a voice and an opinion like everyone else. Instead, this entity overrides you and you cower…